Differences

We should love those whose beliefs are different than ours. Though your personal beliefs may differ from people around you, choose to embrace the person whose ideas are different. Even in Christianity where there are many who choose denominations different from your own, know that tens, twenties, and fifties are equally acceptable.

Selflessness

We should always seek out virtue, and there is no better virtue than love. To know love is to know selflessness. For true love is kind and forgiving and focuses not on yourself, but on those around you. And selfless love has no strings. Or kettle drums.