Setting Expectations

If you set your expectations low, you will never know disappointment. But do you really want that type of standard? Disappointment is a part of the growing process. For if you don’t know what disappointment is, you’ll never know what a true accomplishment is. So set the bar higher, but not so high that you can’t reach the good liquor on the top shelf.

I Will

Life is a series of overcoming difficulties. Though each person faces different challenges than their neighbor, the challenges are similar in structure and intensity. Without difficulties we cannot know what our limitations are. So before you say “I can’t,” say “I’ll try.” Before you say “I won’t,” say “I will.” And before you say “Hey, Bubba, watch this,” be sure you’re adequately insured.

Weather

Trying to predict a person’s behavior is like predicting the weather. It’s an exercise in futility. That’s why, as when we deal with unpredictable weather, being prepared is essential in adapting to changing conditions. Have your mind open to the possibility of surprise and nuance. Don’t go into a conversation and try to predict its flow. If you do, there’s a strong possibility your wind gusts from the north will bring a 90% chance of disappointment.